School’s Out, Business Isn’t: Delegating Without the Guilt

By the last week of July, most UK schools have broken up, and if you run a business while also running a household, you already know what that means. The six-week juggle has begun and for a lot of small business owners, so has the guilt.

Guilt about working while the kids are around. Guilt about not working, because clients are still expecting things. Guilt about handing tasks over to someone else because surely, if you were better at this, you wouldn’t need to.

I want to push back gently on all three of those, because none of them are really about capability. They’re about carrying more than one person reasonably can, at the same time, and calling it normal.

The Guilt Isn’t a Signal That You’re Doing It Wrong

Here’s something 20 years of supporting senior leaders taught me: the executives who ran the most sustainable, high-performing teams weren’t the ones doing everything themselves. They were the ones who’d made peace with the fact that letting go of certain tasks wasn’t a failure of leadership - it was leadership. The guilt lives in the gap between what we think “coping” should look like and what actually keeping a business and a family running well requires.

Running a small business solo doesn’t come with a support team by default. But that doesn’t mean you have to carry every task yourself for six weeks straight.

What Delegating During the Summer Actually Looks Like

It doesn’t have to mean handing over your whole business, or even hiring anyone new. For most people, it’s smaller than that:

•          The recurring admin that eats an hour a day - inbox triage, diary management, invoice chasing - handed to someone else for six weeks, not forever.

•          The one client project that always seems to land in the school holidays - could research, first drafts, or scheduling be pulled forward or handed off, rather than squeezed into evenings?

•          The tasks you do out of habit, not necessity - the social media post you could batch in June instead of writing fresh every week in August.

None of these require a full-time hire. Many can be covered by a few hours a week of support, precisely because they’re not complicated - they’re just relentless.

Reframing What “Present” Means

There’s a version of summer where being a good parent means being constantly available, and being a good business owner means being constantly online. Both can’t be fully true at the same time, and trying to hold both at once tends to mean neither gets your best attention.

Delegating a handful of hours a week isn’t choosing business over family, or the reverse. It’s choosing to be properly present for both, instead of half-present for everything.

A Small Permission Slip

If you take one thing from this post, let it be this: needing help during the school holidays isn’t a sign you’re not cut out for running your own business. It’s a sign you’re running a life with more than one demand on it - which is true of almost everyone reading this.

The six weeks will end. What you don’t get back is the version of them where you were too stretched to actually be in either place.

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Mary Weatherley is the founder of Control Alt Completed, a UK-based virtual assistant business specialising in systems, operations, and business support. With 20+ years of board-level EA experience, she helps small business owners get organised, get systems in place, and get on with running their businesses.